I was a bit skeptical about this site but it’s been less than a week since I lost my older brother. I’m having a hard time processing my grief and it’s still a shock that he’s gone. I’d like to know how/what helped you cope with the sudden loss of a loved one and the feelings of guilt (please don’t say I shouldn’t feel guilty- I know I shouldn’t and I’ve heard that countless times). Thank you for allowing me to share.
Lost my sister in 2018 and felt the same. Grieved for a while, then it didn’t seem to bother me much after that, until recently, almost 9 years later. I don’t feel guilty as I didn’t cause it, so I’m with you the overuse of terms like that. What I can tell you with 100% certainty, is the feeling of loss will sneak up on you when you least expect it. I’m not an overly emotional guy, but I’ll be honest with you, when it hits me it’ll make me break down and cry. Hang in there.