I lost my sister on 11/31/08. She was 16 and I was 10. I will never forget the sound of my mother screaming when she found her. I had no clue that my sister was struggling with depression.(I assume my parents hid it from me) At first, being so young, I didn’t fully understand how much my life would change after this. Nothing has or will ever be the same. If I could offer any advice it would be to live life to fullest as they would want. Go to grief concelling as it really does help. Let go and let god.